The Answer Key

Let the good vibes run your day, seep into your thoughts, and flow out from your soul. Take a deep breath- you can not solve everything at once, and everything can not hurt you all at once either. Give yourself the opportunity to seek, find, and apply a solution, answer, response, or explanation even if it is a temporary one while you determine what the best course of action would be for a more permanent resolve. In the meantime, be grateful for time (however little of it you think you have) to process every unfortunate circumstance while you determine what act would result in the best reality for your situation to your benefit, clarity, or vindication. No matter what issues may arise or how difficult a problem may be, remain grateful for options, opportunity, and optimism. Know that there is something to be gained from your experience no matter how awful things may seem in the moment- stay positive. Be grateful for what you are meant to receive as its revelation is on its way whethe...

The best way to deal with stress is to get rid of it. Sometimes that can be easier said than done, but it is not impossible. You can benefit immensely from learning to redirect your emotional energy. Stressful situations will come and can definitely take their toll on you, but only if you allow them to. You have to learn to recognize when stress has made its way to the forefront of your experience and refocus your energy on the solution to the cause, acknowledging your limitations on the external, and reminding yourself that everything is temporary. Stress is an emotional response that can be controlled. Know that you have power and using your power to redirect your energy to a positive, productive mindset is the first step to becoming stress free. Starve your stress by amplifying your appreciation and attention on all that is good and right in your life despite the current stressful situation. Then, begin to focus less on the cause but on your effort to resolve your dilemma, ...

Some may think your dreams are too big, your goals are too high, and your nerve is unwarranted. Some may even misdirect, deter, disrespect, or dismiss your ambition, but that is too bad for them. You should know that their doubt is a reflection of their own misunderstanding of how much life will respond to you if you show up. You already know that some doors will not open even when you knock, every door that is open is not necessarily meant for you, and other knobs will turn but the door they are on will remain shut. That said, when you get to your door you will know it and will walk right through. In the meantime, your job is to find it; stay positive, stay motivation, be encouraged, and keep going. Now, i f you are looking for a genie to presto your dreams into reality- good luck. You will certainly find a good one on Broadway in Aladdin, but if you are looking for a life where your dreams start to align with your reality just get to work.   Your dreams will not work out for...

A life lived with authenticity, fun, intensity, and an open heart is a life worth living. Live your life with the intent to enjoy it. Be happy on purpose. Live in the moment, try something new, and do what you love. The doubt, the fear, the hesitation, and reluctance that vibrates off of others into your space is merely a reflection of their minimalism. Those restrictions are not your own. Do not be insulted by their limitations. They can only see at eye level. You, on the other hand, know you have a gift, desire genuinely authentic experiences, know what your purpose is or are seeking it, and intend to use it. There is nothing wrong with you expressing yourself with the motive of showing up in your own life as a presence that is living the most genuine life you can in your most natural, unique, and extraordinary way. Be an example of proof that one can live their life wholeheartedly without penalty or guilt. Give yourself credit for the small steps you take in the right direction, acc...

Never let the opinions of others define who you are. Be true to your Self. Stand in the glory of who you are, where you represent, and the sum of your experience, survival, and pure awesomeness. Who cares who can not handle it, do not get it, or have not caught on; they will never understand. Just be you. The outside's definition, distinction, or presumption of you will change anyway depending on who you ask, who you are talking to, or who assumes the position of authority on who you are. Be clear, you are the only true knower, doer, and definer of you. It is not your job to conform, constrict, or contort yourself into the box they have created. Screw that damn box. Your job is to show up as the most authentic version of yourself no matter how it derails their train of thought, expectation, deduction, or inaccurate assumption. Expose their ignorance by being you no matter what they think, believe, or say you should be, and destroy the box. ~For more positive posts stop by...

Be mindful of the convenience factor. There are people who have the convenience factor built into their fiber, their being, their consciousness, their DNA thus their convenience assessment is an automatic response that puts them personally under first consideration during decision-making time. Still, there are those that struggle with the balancing act of being or not allowing too much or too little of the convenience factor to have control over any given situation. Some people struggle with other characteristics that are built into their fiber, being, consciousness, and or DNA such as vigilante-ism, heroism, savior-ism, and fixer-ism. Their focus tends to be on the decisions and resolutions that are best for everyone first and not necessarily considering the intrusion of that decision on their own convenience as a means to that end. Everyone should be careful not to over extend themselves in either direction. Be a resource, but refuse to be taken for granted. Always remember to snatch...

No matter what yesterday had in store for you, today is a new day. Give yourself permission to forgive everyone, including yourself, for falling short. Do more to understand the lesson that life is trying to teach you through your trials and struggles. Those are there to help you grow. Anything and everything is actually an opportunity for you to shine your brightest. Find the reason for every situation to work in your favor, look for the big picture, and appreciate the blessing in every lesson. Be mindfully engaged in your own life and its direction. Make sure you make time to do the things that bring you joy on purpose. There is nothing more fulfilling than creating and cultivating joy and positivity with you in mind. Take care of your thoughts and behave like every moment was made to enhance your experience. This is your life, live it to the fullest, shine brightly, and be thankful for every chance you get to live again. ~For more positive posts stop by fb.me/TheAnswerKey & www...

Do not just think of your wishes coming true, make them happen. Wishing on stars is nice, but you still have to do your part to make the best ending for your own story. While you can play a part in the stories around you, remember to give your own the attention it deserves. It is perfectly blissful to dream about it, but then wake up and do more than just imagine it coming to fruition. Be thoughtful with clear intentions and actively pursue it. Accept who you are in the present, be helpful to others, but have your own goals for your own future. Be dedicated and committed to them, and do whatever you can today to make them happen- great and small. Do something. Remain grateful for the gifts you have and share them mindfully, generously, and purposefully while you continue to grow, mature, and develop into the best version of yourself and a living example of progress. Refuse to be distracted or overwhelmed with anybody else's stuff. Be an expression of balance, one with love to give ...

What do you want? Okay. Now, what do you really want? The good stuff. The stuff you have not even told your best friend about. The stuff that makes you blush. The one thing, place, or experience that makes you tingle all over, warms you from the inside out, and makes you smile just thinking about it. You know exactly what that is. Think about it, hold on to it, and do not be distracted. Every morning, take a few moments to focus on just that. Imagine what it would feel like to have that under your belt, off your bucket list, or living a life with that in it. Start your day off on the right foot, with it on your mind, holding your focus, and motivating you to go for it. Chase it. Put one foot in front of the other knowing that is possible and do at least a little something every day to make that happen. ~For more positive posts stop by www.twitter.com/_TheAnswerKey & fb.me/TheAnswerKey daily!

Mistakes can be hard to process, but sometimes they can not be avoided. While you have learned either via observation or experience that mistakes are going to happen; there are those that still strive for perfection. Hopefully, you are not one of them. Why? Well, surely, you have concluded at this point in your life that no matter how much anyone tries, there is no such person that is perfect. However recent, you know this for a fact so you can focus your attention not on perfection but whatever your best is. Even still, even having given your best, your best may not equate to the result, conclusion, or distinction you had hoped for but an unfortunate mistake nonetheless. When a mistake happens, there are several options going forward: you can whine, moan, regret, or suffer, or you can own your mistakes, make things right whenever possible, and most of all appreciate the experience on its own and take away from that, that which may make you better. That is all you can really ever expec...

You have the power to change your life. Start today! Do something that makes your soul come most alive, brings your dreams closer to your reality, and your bucket list shorter even by just a little bit. There is nothing more precious than the knowing that you have so much say in what does or does not manifest, cease, or continue in your life. Decide right now that you are determined to live the life you have with clear, positive intentions in your thoughts, love and gratitude in heart, and a wide smile on your face. Do something today that will brighten the rest of your tomorrows. ~For more positive posts stop by www.twitter.com/_TheAnswerKey & fb.me/TheAnswerKey daily! 

Love requires a certain amount of vulnerability that does not necessarily come naturally to everybody, but when it does, love can bubble to the surface and reveal a delicate soul full of unconscious openness- so open that its ability to regulate itself is still a young muscle. That said, if you can love like that you also have to be conscious of that muscle's unfortunate exposure and weakness. Understand that there are people that look for your kind and prey on you. All of your talents and beams of awesomeness overflow abundantly and because you are extremely generous with your gifts you must also be very careful. While it is a wonderful thought that no one would dare see your greatness for what it is and take advantage, over indulge, abuse, or empty your supply- you are mistaken. Some people will be intoxicated by your great expression of love and want so much of it that there is little left for yourself. Remember to leave room for you too. For you to really love like you want to,...

Do not let anyone under value or dismiss how you feel.  Stand firm in full embrace of your feelings while remaining in and maintaining control. Be expressive and honest without trepidation- no matter what.  You have every right to be as open and honest as the situation will allow without judgement or guilt. Just as others look for you to care about their emotional well-being extending grace, courtesy, understanding, and forgiveness in and throughout your experience with them, you and they should bare in mind your humanness as well. Whomever the other is should also note that your limitations may differ from their own and they should refrain from testing those boundaries. Everyone should avoid minimizing the validity of someone's feelings or expect to be reminded of their true value in themselves. Some people think that if you are anything but passive, dismissive, and agreeable you are not exhibiting an elevated position, but that is the mentality of one that has been misguided...

Most people's worst critic is staring at them through their own mirror. People harp on themselves about all, every, and anything they haven't done, been, seen, or accomplished. While everyone has a perfectly executed version of their plans in mind, they also often forget the humanity of it all. You must remember that the plan is a mere outline of what you anticipate happening; that is the extent of it. Now things could go accordingly, but life is full of surprises like sand on a beach. Sometimes issues get together and really pile on. No one knows all that their life will entail loaded with its unforeseen hiccups, blunders, pitfalls, and out right regrettable moments. How ever it unfolds, you have to remain resilient, have courage, and mellow out a little. Give yourself permission to experience trials and most especially a few errors. It is through those experiences you will locate your greatest growth, understanding, and humility- muscles that only strengthen through a good wo...

Live every day with more intensity, purpose, and passion and Carpe your diem.  Focusing your attention more on the present moment, making the most of it, and appreciating your list of accomplishments versus your bucket list will help you begin to live life to the fullest. Embrace your current place and circumstance for what it is, but make the most of your day, everyday building your future. Be in pursuit of fulfilling your dreams, but do not forget to enjoy the journey on your way there. Anyone who reaches "the end" of their rainbow finds a new goal waiting for them so there is no rush. Make the most of every day you are in just remember that doing so should not always consist of reviewing the many ways you 'have not (yet)' but the many ways 'you have' made the most of the moments of your life and the day you are in. In everything you do be passionate about it, let it have a true purpose in your life, and when you pour your intensity and effort in, let it ...

Keep your hopes, dreams, and the action-plan you have to achieving them close to the front of your mind daily. Give it your undivided attention as often as possible, but minimize the pressure to maneuver quickly. Go at your own pace. Make a plan and act on that plan daily, but do so with the acceptance that your place right now is likely meant to teach and prepare you to be and stay where you want to go. Have an appreciation for the place you are in currently. Understand that there is a purpose for where you are and a reason for why you are not where you would like to be. Even if you feel as if you are moving at a snail's pace, you are still going. All forward motion is progress. It all counts, and it will add up to something. Just keep going. ~For more positive posts stop by www.twitter.com/_TheAnswerKey & fb.me/TheAnswerKey daily!

From the very beginning of your day, as soon as you roll out of bed and start your morning routine, take several mindful and deep breaths. Be grateful for the natural flow of breath, your pulsating heartbeat, how natural the course is for your body to just be, and think about the goals you will accomplish today.  Some days are harder than others and will show you resistance. Tone down the magnitude life's challenges when they arise by reminding yourself of the control you do have and how you will use that to remedy, counter, or overcome your challenges instead of resting on them or allowing them to fester. Own your day, control your thoughts, smile often, stay positively driven, and all will be well. ~For more positive posts stop by www.twitter.com/_TheAnswerKey & fb.me/TheAnswerKey daily!

Keep your head up, your hopes high, energy and thoughts positive, and push forward no matter what the circumstance. Spend less time dwelling on the situation and just fix it. If that is not in your ability or responsibility, spend more of your time appreciating all of the things that bring you joy and cost you nothing while you wait. Stay positive. That is the easiest way to positively redirect your inner chatter and put a positive spin on your perspective regarding the external challenges that show up in your life. Lastly, Know that your life will always be blessed with what you can handle. What you can handle is not about stuff but what you get out of all of your experiences- good, bad, indifferent, and the 'I hope there are no pictures of this that can be used as evidence against me at a later date' stuff. Through it all, no matter what the experience is before you, you can positively endure it, learn from it, and grow into your best self. ~For more positive posts stop by ww...

Greet your day with a smile and gratitude for another day of life.  Try to make it a great day every time you get the chance. Start your steps to happiness with this understanding; the first reason to be happy is in your face as soon as you open your eyes every morning.  You have another opportunity to live your life just as well or even better than you did yesterday. In addition to that, when your happy is dwindling, redirect your thoughts. Put on some good mood music, light your favorite scented candles, take a hot bath, phone a friend ;), but most importantly, remind yourself that all trials are temporary. Something great is on its way no matter what your current circumstance may be. Pace yourself, smile through it all, and be the happiest you, you can be. ~For more positive posts stop by www.twitter.com/_TheAnswerKey & fb.me/TheAnswerKey daily!

Sometimes circumstances beyond your control can present themselves in the worst way, with the worst timing, around the wrong people. It can put you in a state of utter vulnerability. Keep that in mind when dealing with others and their issues, problems, troubles, or short-comings. Things do not always go according to your plan. That standard is the standard for everyone. Life will throw you a curveball on a whim. It can get complex, but it is your job to simplify it. If you can- do. If you won't- don't. Never mind how important you think you are. No one should be above busting some suds. This is the truth, plain and simple- here are the rules: under any circumstance, the less unnecessary clutter, chaos, chatter or confusion the better, add positivity to the situation rather than take any away, give a solution, even if it is a temporary one; help remedy the problem. You can talk about the issues and advise, but do so without the judgmental tone- everyone can use a little less of...