The Answer Key

Never let the opinions of others define who you are. Be true to your Self. Stand in the glory of who you are, where you represent, and the sum of your experience, survival, and pure awesomeness. Who cares who can not handle it, do not get it, or have not caught on; they will never understand. Just be you. The outside's definition, distinction, or presumption of you will change anyway depending on who you ask, who you are talking to, or who assumes the position of authority on who you are. Be clear, you are the only true knower, doer, and definer of you. It is not your job to conform, constrict, or contort yourself into the box they have created. Screw that damn box. Your job is to show up as the most authentic version of yourself no matter how it derails their train of thought, expectation, deduction, or inaccurate assumption. Expose their ignorance by being you no matter what they think, believe, or say you should be, and destroy the box. ~For more positive posts stop by  fb.me/Th

Be mindful of the convenience factor. There are people who have the convenience factor built into their fiber, their being, their consciousness, their DNA thus their convenience assessment is an automatic response that puts them personally under first consideration during decision-making time. Still, there are those that struggle with the balancing act of being or not allowing too much or too little of the convenience factor to have control over any given situation. Some people struggle with other characteristics that are built into their fiber, being, consciousness, and or DNA such as vigilante-ism, heroism, savior-ism, and fixer-ism. Their focus tends to be on the decisions and resolutions that are best for everyone first and not necessarily considering the intrusion of that decision on their own convenience as a means to that end. Everyone should be careful not to over extend themselves in either direction. Be a resource, but refuse to be taken for granted. Always remember to snatch

No matter what yesterday had in store for you, today is a new day. Give yourself permission to forgive everyone, including yourself, for falling short. Do more to understand the lesson that life is trying to teach you through your trials and struggles. Those are there to help you grow. Anything and everything is actually an opportunity for you to shine your brightest. Find the reason for every situation to work in your favor, look for the big picture, and appreciate the blessing in every lesson. Be mindfully engaged in your own life and its direction. Make sure you make time to do the things that bring you joy on purpose. There is nothing more fulfilling than creating and cultivating joy and positivity with you in mind. Take care of your thoughts and behave like every moment was made to enhance your experience. This is your life, live it to the fullest, shine brightly, and be thankful for every chance you get to live again. ~For more positive posts stop by fb.me/TheAnswerKey & www

Do not just think of your wishes coming true, make them happen. Wishing on stars is nice, but you still have to do your part to make the best ending for your own story. While you can play a part in the stories around you, remember to give your own the attention it deserves. It is perfectly blissful to dream about it, but then wake up and do more than just imagine it coming to fruition. Be thoughtful with clear intentions and actively pursue it. Accept who you are in the present, be helpful to others, but have your own goals for your own future. Be dedicated and committed to them, and do whatever you can today to make them happen- great and small. Do something. Remain grateful for the gifts you have and share them mindfully, generously, and purposefully while you continue to grow, mature, and develop into the best version of yourself and a living example of progress. Refuse to be distracted or overwhelmed with anybody else's stuff. Be an expression of balance, one with love to give

What do you want? Okay. Now, what do you really want? The good stuff. The stuff you have not even told your best friend about. The stuff that makes you blush. The one thing, place, or experience that makes you tingle all over, warms you from the inside out, and makes you smile just thinking about it. You know exactly what that is. Think about it, hold on to it, and do not be distracted. Every morning, take a few moments to focus on just that. Imagine what it would feel like to have that under your belt, off your bucket list, or living a life with that in it. Start your day off on the right foot, with it on your mind, holding your focus, and motivating you to go for it. Chase it. Put one foot in front of the other knowing that is possible and do at least a little something every day to make that happen. ~For more positive posts stop by www.twitter.com/_TheAnswerKey & fb.me/TheAnswerKey daily!