Keep It Real

Do not let anyone under value or dismiss how you feel. Stand firm in full embrace of your feelings while remaining in and maintaining control. Be expressive and honest without trepidation- no matter what. You have every right to be as open and honest as the situation will allow without judgement or guilt. Just as others look for you to care about their emotional well-being extending grace, courtesy, understanding, and forgiveness in and throughout your experience with them, you and they should bare in mind your humanness as well. Whomever the other is should also note that your limitations may differ from their own and they should refrain from testing those boundaries. Everyone should avoid minimizing the validity of someone's feelings or expect to be reminded of their true value in themselves. Some people think that if you are anything but passive, dismissive, and agreeable you are not exhibiting an elevated position, but that is the mentality of one that has been misguided into thinking that stifling, smothering, or invalidating your own emotion for the sake of "saving face" is healthy. In fact, the opposite is true, the worst transgression you can make against yourself is minimizing your Self in your experience. There is nothing wrong with disagreeing, feeling disrespected, or being disappointed as long as you ultimately choose your response to said emotion, wisely. Be you. Be free. Be honest. Be real. ~For more positive posts stop by fb.me/TheAnswerKey & www.twitter.com/_TheAnswerKey daily! 

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