Go Getter

Make a conscious effort to focus less on what you have not achieved or how long it may take you to get to your goal, and get busy reaching for it. Focus on prioritizing your day around your goal. Focus less on how far you have to go, and more on how far you have come. You have to learn to stop feeding your anxieties and disappointments. It takes up too much time and energy. Both your time and energy can be put to better use planning the course of action needed to get what you want. The time you spend feeding your losses and disappointments could be better used investing in the things necessary to get where, what, or becoming who you want to be. Actively invest your time and energy into your goal every day verses concentrating on the difficulties and obstacles you are or will face to achieve it. If you are busy putting in doubt, fear, or any kind of negative energy you will be just that, doubtful, fearful, and negative.Set a goal, make a plan, and put the plan into action, but most importantly, remember to make time to appreciate what you have right now. Start every day with a smile on your face and gratitude in your heart. Acknowledge that life is perfectly imperfect and even so, you are blessed and grateful. You may not have a platform like Oprah, sing like Mariah, have moves like Beyonce, a booty like J.Lo, or a shape like Halle, but by-golly you know what you have are blessings, big and small. Consciously and actively show your appreciation for those things and do not take them for granted. Be appreciative and happy with the many ways your life has been blessed thus far in addition to seeking more, and continue to make strides towards accomplishing your goals.

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