A Better (not Bitter) Beginning

Far too often you may bring baggage into new relationships that should have been left behind. Do not allow the faults of your former love to take a front seat in your new relationship. Take time to heal first. That will give the new person on their way into your life the opportunity to earn your love with a clean slate. Do not make your new partner pay the penalty for the transgressions of your former love. That will only make your new partner resentful and perhaps create issues for your relationship that would not otherwise be there.Whatever you do, make sure all of your experiences count towards making you the best you in your future relationship. Learn what you needed to take away from that experience and let it go. Do that as soon as you possibly can; dwelling on the past will stunt your growth. Let go of the woulda, shoulda, coulda, and get with the IS and AM. The next relationship IS going to be better and I AM going to be a better partner because of what I have learned, will give, and receive deservingly. Let go of any hurt or disappointment and focus your energy on what you can do now, you intentions for your next relationship, and how you will apply what you know now that you learned from the previous experience. Receive whatever lesson that part of your journey has given you with open arms, and move forward being a better version of yourself prepared for a better relationship. You will come to appreciate your own growth, and attract better things and people to your life.

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