Moving Forward

Every day may not be the best day of your life, but the anticipation of a new opportunity to have the best day ever should put a smile on your face. Even during the worst, most desperate and depressing times in your life, knowing that you may see another day to try again, do things better, over, or differently is the way you move forward. Focusing on your opportunities, advantages, benefits and blessings verses your let-downs, disappointments, regrets, or misfortunes pushes you in a positive direction.

Moving forward is vital to your happiness, and the lack of your forward motion will lead to your dismay. We all have been through major trials and triumphs. Learning from even the most miserable experiences yet refusing to let them direct your life is your first step forward. Recently, I was reflecting on a situation that I faced that could have broken me, but at the time I did not realize or acknowledge its magnitude. While I did not make lite of it either, I certainly maintained my composure and focused on the outcome or solution instead of or in spite of the unfortunate situation.

Moving forward requires you to let go, release, forgive, and overlook your trials, transgressions, faults, and even your haters. That's right. Moving forward even gives your haters a pass.That is not to say that you or your haters should be left unaccountable or no longer responsible for your actions, but it does give you and them the option and the opportunity to do and be better. Moving forward means that even your worst experience makes a positive impact on your life. Embrace your life and all the experiences it has brought you through. Reflect and appreciate what those experiences have taught you. Then, take with you the tools your experiences have given you that will be necessary to succeed on your journey, and finally move forward.

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