The 3 Golden Rules: Communication-Dedication-Appreciation
Most relationships fail because there is a lack of communication, dedication, or appreciation.
Communicating is the reciprocation of listening to your partner, speaking to your partner, and using the sum of that conversation to understand, resolve, or define what is or is not happening in the relationship. Most communication issues stem from dishonesty, failure to be willing to view another perspective, or outside conversations are louder than the ones between you and your partner. The hardest part of communicating is doing it with the constant overtone of love. The lack of dedication is the second most common reason why relationships fail. This may stem from a number of things such as one feels unappreciated, one feels inferior, one feels superior, or one has simply given up. Any one of these things can lend itself as the culprit or conspirator for cheaters. Lastly, the lack of appreciation can also be the catalyst from which relationships fail as well. The lack of appreciation is the mental and emotional desensitization of the value of one's partner. Appreciation must be practiced. Because you are humanly desensitized to whatever you conquer or whomever you have presently, you must make a conscious effort to be appreciative which will be the conscious acknowledgement of your partner's positive, helpful, loving, generous, unconditional consideration and bond to you and your awareness of it however great or small. The best way to avoid falling prey to any of these relationship destroyers is to first and foremost, practice appreciation, self accountability, and awareness. Make the conscious effort to be aware and responsible for the role you play in your relationship and how you contribute to the growth of your relationship which will inevitably strengthen your bond to one another. Be conscious of your partner's efforts to do the same, and simply appreciate their presence; acknowledging that it is their choice to be there with you as it is yours to be with them.
Communicating is the reciprocation of listening to your partner, speaking to your partner, and using the sum of that conversation to understand, resolve, or define what is or is not happening in the relationship. Most communication issues stem from dishonesty, failure to be willing to view another perspective, or outside conversations are louder than the ones between you and your partner. The hardest part of communicating is doing it with the constant overtone of love. The lack of dedication is the second most common reason why relationships fail. This may stem from a number of things such as one feels unappreciated, one feels inferior, one feels superior, or one has simply given up. Any one of these things can lend itself as the culprit or conspirator for cheaters. Lastly, the lack of appreciation can also be the catalyst from which relationships fail as well. The lack of appreciation is the mental and emotional desensitization of the value of one's partner. Appreciation must be practiced. Because you are humanly desensitized to whatever you conquer or whomever you have presently, you must make a conscious effort to be appreciative which will be the conscious acknowledgement of your partner's positive, helpful, loving, generous, unconditional consideration and bond to you and your awareness of it however great or small. The best way to avoid falling prey to any of these relationship destroyers is to first and foremost, practice appreciation, self accountability, and awareness. Make the conscious effort to be aware and responsible for the role you play in your relationship and how you contribute to the growth of your relationship which will inevitably strengthen your bond to one another. Be conscious of your partner's efforts to do the same, and simply appreciate their presence; acknowledging that it is their choice to be there with you as it is yours to be with them.
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