The Choice Is Yours

When you have been wronged or let down, you may accept that people make mistakes and move on, you may expect an apology, or at the very least, you may be looking for an explanation, clarity, and understanding.The most necessary part of moving forward is finding a resolution, letting go, and creating your own peace no matter what. It may be as simple as an apology, compromise, or merely accepting that a mistake was made, but most importantly understanding how to ensure the past does not repeat itself. Harboring pain, disappointments, or any transgression weighs you down. Release your emotional baggage. If nothing else comes of the steps you have taken to forgiveness, the most important step is to let it go. It will lift your spirits even if it does not repair the relationship, better the circumstances, or change the outcome. People make mistakes and do not deserve to be harshly judged for every single petty infraction, but you are charged with protecting yourself from those that would repeatedly harm you. Simply be responsible for you. Forgiveness is the best gift you can give to yourself. Know that you can not fix people or un-do damage that has already been done, but you can heal yourself on your own. Their participation is not required. ~For more positive posts check out fb.me/TheAnswerKey & www.twitter.com/_TheAnswerKey daily!