The Bright Side...

To truly have a life of purpose with balance, joy, peace, and happiness is to live life in a positive way. Acknowledge that there is a bright side to every situation and all things are working in your favor. Commit to the idea that you can recover from any adversity life may hand you. Only then can you use every experience to better your life. Retraining your mind to find the assets instead of the detriment is vital to living a positive life of joy and gratitude. Count your blessings often. Know that your challenges and struggles are meant to be your tools to get what you want, what you need, and teach you what you must know when trouble arises in the future. Your prior triumphs over trials remind you that you can prevail because you have before. Try not to take everything to heart. Assume that transgressions are not personal and be grateful for timing. The less time you waste on relationships or ventures that fail you, the better. Like the choices of others, there will be some things that are out of your hands. Instead of dwelling on what you can not change, take charge of what is in your control and direct your life into the best light. To know direction is to know what rules you. Everything that rules us mentally and emotionally consists of intangible things. Whether it is love, trust, faith, hope, joy, courage, or fear we are ruled by any one of these things from one moment to the next. Everyone can relate to these charges specifically whether they have them or lack them. Either way, they determine the path of your thought-process with or without evidence to support the charge. Focus on what is in your control, your thoughts, your attitude, your actions and go from there. Every day your commitment and practice to direct your life in love and positivity will eventually become effortless to you and anything less will be uncomfortable.

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