Appreciate Your Progress

Most young adults put a lot of unnecessary pressure on themselves to live up to a fantasy. Whether it is self imposed, societal, or parental, the pressure is on. Fortunately, the reality is what you already know for sure; life comes with hills and valleys. Life is work, and everyone is a work in progress. That said, feel free to chase your dreams, love who you love, and create great memories with your friends and family. Let go of the fantasy, and live your life to the best of your ability. As long as you are making you happy, that is what matters most. Dance to the beat of your own drum. People will always have something to say. There will always be someone who thinks they could live your life better than you do. The key is to live a life loving what you do, creating joy as you would have it, and living it at your best according to (your first and last name goes here). Let "them" dwell on how far you have to go. You should only focus on where you are headed, acknowledge how far you have come, and embrace wherever you are in your journey right now. Change your perspective in regards to measuring up and lose the measuring cup altogether. Some days may bring trouble, and while you definitely do not want to welcome it, do not run from it either. Every obstacle in life is actually an opportunity to reveal to you how brave, strong, smart, or resilient you really are. Acknowledge all the things that are good in your life, what you have that you love, and get in the business of living a life entirely focused on your joy; whatever that means for you. In all of your efforts do the best you can; give it all you got, learn from your mistakes, and with every opportunity do better. While you are doing all of that, remember to be kind to yourself. It is okay to aim for perfection, but personal excellence is good too. As long as every move you make is given your best effort, take the pressure off, and remember that greatness takes time. Live your life as best you can, and do not forget to appreciate your own progress.

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