The Answer Key

The kill switch is your go to move to remove yourself from a negative experience be it in situation or conversation. Feel free to hit the kill switch and save yourself. Whether it means you have to "take an important call", "forgot a meeting you need to get to", "doctor's appointment", or "training for a  triathlon"- w hatever your excuse, put it to use because nothing is more important than sustaining a healthy loving, happy life, and you should never let yourself feel bad about that. Maintaining your joy is your job. ~For more positive posts stop by www.twitter.com/_TheAnswerKey &  fb.me/TheAnswerKey daily!

To PUSH (take) positive, un-reprehensible, steps to happiness, you make a conscious, intentional movement in a specific direction for your life's journey- forward. Moving forward is vital to your happiness, and the lack of your forward motion will leave to you stagnant and open to misdirection and distraction. Everyone has been through major trials and triumphs. That said, learning how to grow from even the most miserable experiences and simultaneously refusing to let them direct your life is your first step forward. PUSHing only requires that more often than not, you make choices that support the cultivation of your own happiness. ~For more positive posts check out www.twitter.com/_TheAnswerKey & fb.me/TheAnswerKey daily!

To live happily ever after is to first understand that your happiness is your responsibility and reliant on how quickly you can mentally and emotionally rebound from negativity back to positivity. Check negative energy at the door.  Instead of wasting energy on the negative things or people that show up in your life, foster and focus on healthy relationships, things that are going your way, just as you planned, or better than you thought and give yourself a mindful push in a positive direction. Then, you can invest that renewed energy into the ways that you can better yourself and the situation that agitate you. Make loving choices for yourself; focus your energy on how you are actively gaining, earning, and acquiring the things, opportunities, or people you seek in your life. Whenever negativity finds a way to sneak in through circumstances or people, escort it out with the conscious decision to live a happy life, promoted by positive energy, and healthy relationships. ~For more posit

Are people constantly on your emotional doorstep? While you would like to help everyone with every issue every day until they are out of the dark, you can not allow someone else's negativity, drama, poor choices, or self-inflicted problems pull you in. It can be very difficult to know where to draw the line, but all of their issues are the lessons of life they need to experience for personal growth. Let them have their experience without it becoming a total distraction for you. Their issues should not be a headline but a small subsidiary story in your day. For all things show compassion by all means, but do so with the understanding that all experiences are meant to help you grow as an individual- that goes for everyone. Know that they too will eventually find themselves in a better place if they do what is necessary to work through their challenges. Part of your journey is balancing the support your give away and the work you put into your self for your own personal growth. Rememb

With all good things there are equally as many bad things. The result of what you find depends entirely on which you are looking for. If you are seeking the bad, the debilitating, the negative, surely, that is what you will find. However, if you train yourself to seek the good, the positive, the beautiful, and awe-inspiring, surely, you will find that too. It is entirely up to you to decide which of those seekers you will become. Consistently choosing to find the (sometimes hidden) light, good, inspiration, positivity, and love will expand your world, strengthen your ability, and increase the opportunity to see it more often and more easily. You get to decide what energy you will let lead your life. Choose to be up instead of down, light over darkness, love over hate, gratitude over greed, faith over fear, and a beholder of joy above all else. ~For more positive posts check out www.twitter.com/_TheAnswerKey & fb.me/TheAnswerKey daily!

Do not dwell on the hurt, disappointment, or missed opportunities in the distant past. There is nothing to be done about it. Release the weight its memory carries and the control it has over you. Take back the power that has always been yours and walk away, move on, move forward toward the light of a brighter future. Choose not to relive the adversity over and over in your mind, but live for today focused on your future and the glow of all the awesome possibilities that lie ahead. Acknowledge the choice you have, to be victimized by your past or the champion of your future. The choice is and has always been yours. Choose to be the champion of your own life's story. ~For more positive posts check out www.twitter.com/_TheAnswerKey & fb.me/TheAnswerKey daily! 

Life is fleeting; the same people we love today will be the ones we miss one day in the near or distant future. Why not make the most of the time we have together right now, today? Do something with someone special, create an awesome memory you will always have together. Embrace and acknowledge the miracle of loving and being loved. At the end of it all, memories are precious gifts of the heart that last forever and will someday be all we have left. Make the most of every moment you get. ~For more positive posts check out fb.me/TheAnswerKey & www.twitter.com/_TheAnswerKey daily!